After an excruciatingly painful relationship failure of my own, that left me clawing my way up a 45 degree mountain to feel better, I knew there had to be a better way than just hoping to stumble upon a perfect partner. That’s when I went on the quest to solve relationship failure once and for all. Not only for myself, but for all the broken hearted people who think the only safe way to live is by putting their heart in the freezer.
I’ve had an instinct for simplifying and problem solving my whole life. So I succeeded in coming up with a simplified solution that could attract everyone’s attention. With just 3 (yes, only 3) BEST PRACTICES in communication, I discovered ANYONE could keep their new relationship sizzle glowing long after their honeymoon stage was over. It just takes the RIGHT knowledge, a little willingness to play with the ideas, have FUN with them, and practice practice practice.
During that same period, I looked down my time line, to the very end, and realized I was not living a life of purpose, only a life of security and success by other people’s standards. I had been working the last 24 years as a Senior VP of Finance for a company that taught heart selling, with a focus on embedding behavior for successful change. Yet as I looked at the end of my time line, I knew I didn’t want to be one of those statistics that said, “I wished I had led a life true to myself.” I enjoyed finance, but my passion was peace and relationship building. So I spent the next 6 years being trained in multiple disciplines, so I could apply my passion outside the corporate world to a life of purpose.
I now teach my simplified XO solution and have my own personal practice helping individuals know that successful relationships aren’t so mysterious after all.
I am Cheryl Herbst, Hypnotherapist, Energy Healer, Counselor, Life Coach, NLP Master, author, podcaster and most of all, heart mender.
Hi, I’m Cheryl Herbst. And I’m the creator of How To Keep Your X’s and O’s From Becoming Exes and Woes. If your audience has been using that old —— handed-down strategy of soul-mate hunting, to no avail, then its time to say, “STOP! Soul mates aren’t found, they’re CREATED — IF —- you know what you are doing.”
After an excruciatingly painful relationship failure of my own, that left me clawing my way up a 45 degree mountain to feel better, I said to myself, “There’s got to be a better way — than just hoping to stumble upon a perfect partner.” That’s when I went on the quest to solve relationship failure once and for all. And not just for me, but for every person holding their heart in the freezer.
My revolutionary XO solution GROWS relationships. And it does it quickly and efficiently, giving your audience a NEW option so that —— they never again have to wait around, HOPING for Mr/Ms Right.
If they can yet IMAGINE being empowered with the capability
* to hold on to that new relationship sizzle loong after their honeymoon is over, AND
* to keep their partner WANTING to come home to THEM every day, year after year,
then THEY ARE READY to change past failure into future success! That’s when I would love to gift them my 3 BEST practices for ensuring their x’s and o’s never ever again become exes and woes.
And I have a free copy of my e-book for them on my website, AfraidToLoveAgain.com.
1. Keeping Your X’s & O’s From Becoming Exes & Woes: How to keep that new relationship sizzle with just 3 daily practices. This solution creates a desire in your partner to come home to you every day, year after year.
2. Getting Your Needs Met With A Smile: A win-win strategy for asking in such a way that you inspire an unreserved YES! This solution keeps small resentments from building up and driving a wedge into your love bond.
3. Mending Vs Defending: How to understand what is behind the curtain when your partner is triggered. This solution melts fighting into curiosity and compassion.
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